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Online dating is a great money maker but the major sites are all played out. Any one of your users who is interested in online dating probably already has a profile on the major sites. What you need is an alternative site that can convert your users into commissions fast, and that site is Mingles.com!
More than just a dating site, Mingles is a true social networking and chat community. It's the highest quality free service of its kind online. Great features combine with superior matchmaking and dating services to give you a site that your visitors will be quick to join, and that means more money for you!
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Well, our good friends at Mate1.com asked us if we could find some nice men from the UK or US to chat to the thousands of ladies on their website and we said we were sure the readers of Maybedate.com would be pleased to help.
Mate1 dating allows free registration and for you to browse members for free after a very short sign up process. And if you think you like what you see, they'll give you a 3 day dating trial for just $1.95 - and with the UK exchange rate as it is, that's a bit of a bargain. And when we searched for ladies in London, we found over 2000 profiles, so we reckon this is a pretty good place to get yourself a date online. To regsiter for free, just click the image below, they're waiting for you!

Thursday, January 7, 2010

top 10 tips for dating preferences

Top 10 Dating tips for your profile and photos
1. Photos of you skydiving/bungee jumping/wrestling sharks don’t really help a person make a decision about you
2. Including photos of your exes in your photos is also a pretty bad idea…
3. …as is making a reference to them in your profile eg’I hope you won’t steal all my books like my last boy/girl friend did
4. Talk about your preferences but don’t go into too much detail, they don’t know need to know what side of the bed you like to sleep on just yet….
5. Do make an effort though, profiles that read ‘I’d just like to meet someone’ don’t tell prospective partners about you or what you are looking for
6. Everyone enjoys a DVD and a bottle of wine now and them but besides being an alcoholic Barry Norman, tell them what else you like to get up to
7. Oh, and everyone likes to travel too, so don’t feel moved to list your travel CV since the age of 7, we get it, you like holidays!
8. Try and use a photo that has been taken within at least the last two years, failure to do so can see you prosecuted under the Sale of Goods description act (not really but you know what we mean)
9. Talk more about what you do want rather than what you don’t want, it makes you sound a lot more positive
10. Remember to have fun!

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People can be motivated to date each other for a variety of reasons, both healthy and unhealthy. People are social beings who desire the companionship of others and feel lonely without it. People are sexual beings who crave sexual relationships and the physical warmth of another body. People are romantic and spiritual beings who wish to care for other people and to be cared for by other people. People are also drawn to the intensity, drama and excitement that accompanies new relationships. Some people feel incomplete and inadequate as single people, and are drawn towards dating so they can feel more legitimate and less ashamed of themselves. Still others look for a sort of salvation in relationships with other people that they may or may not be able to find. Some or all of these motives, and more still, are likely occurring in the typical person who is interested in dating.

Now I am not saying that we need to spend a King's ransom on the latest designer gear, fashions, style and hand crafted luxury wear from Italy or wherever. But I am suggesting that when we dress well we feel good, we believe we look good and we feel we can do anything we choose. So when dating, its important to look good because if you do, you will feel good too. Good style means a good level of confidence.

Forget arguing about body shape and expense in your defense against my argument here, it doesn't wash. You can look stylish and classic whatever your shape within reason and whatever your budget. Black will always be classic and well tailored clothes will always look a cut above the rest. I cannot walk down any high street or through any mall these days without being inundated with a sense of style. Everywhere we look there are shops desperate to dress you well. The fact that you don't choose to go in them is not the point. Therefore turning up for your first date in a comfy sweatshirt or sports top may make you feel relaxed but it shows absolute contempt for your date who has spent the best part of the last two hours getting ready for your squalid self. Get a grip man.

Okay so whilst my female readership doesn't need a lecture in self presentation generally, my male readership often does. The first thing I want you to remember men is that a woman will judge you by looking straight down at your shoes. You may not see what the fuss is about but she may as well be looking straight past your shoes, all the way down to hell. The fact is, the truth is in the detail. You have washed and scrubbed up well, but casting a more detailed glance over you and the small discrepancies are soon revealed. Missing cufflinks, tie all over the place, missing shirt button etc. All mean that deep down either you are a deeply wild and windswept sex god or you are a disaster in the making who has no idea of style and presentation. If you can't dress yourself buddy, what makes you think you can undress her.


What have we got if we combine these facets. Power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature and an immensely interesting personality. That equals sexy. Is it any wonder therefore that such types of guys often get the gals. It doesn't mean to say that we like them and it doesn't mean to say that this is fair or a good thing. But it can be natures way.

I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. No not at all. What I am saying is that there are lessons to be learned here. What is attractive can be modified and added to our social arsenal of dating weaponry. It is first the way you perceive yourself that matters. If you can increase your confidence levels, get your career on the right tracks, excel in what you do and be your own man within the confines of your working life then this will boost your attractiveness. You don't need to go round being bad, but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a little more enigmatic. This will boost your interest factor and again help in your attractiveness.

The modern dating game is highly complex and courting rituals can be a minefield. Go back to basics and analyze within yourself what is it that you think partners like and how can you match of yourself to those qualities. Changing just a few small things could make the world of difference.